9 Indictors of a potential passionate husband
Getting a passionate partner is everybody’s dream and every single lady out there would wish to get a passionate husband to settle with in the near or far future. The modern world has many challenges and one of them is being able to pick a passionate man in the crowd of many whom think they qualify to be called passionate men.
It does not matter if the lady has been married or is totally single and searching without even a kid, but every lady deserves a passionate man. Getting a passionate man is not a matter of luck, but with keen observation and scrutiny of the men around, it is possible to pick out a passionate man from a crowd of men. Below are nine clear indicators of a potential passionate husband.
- ONE: COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Good communication skills, ability to pass a piece of information at the right time, in the right way e.g. via gestures, talking, etc and at the right place to the right person and to keep quiet and listen is one of the great foundation blocks of passionate love. A man who possesses superior communication skills even gets more dates easily than one who has lousy communication skills. Good communicators know when to smile or laugh or not, when to touch or not, when to listen or to talk, when to employ figurative language etc. Charisma is associated with good communication skills.
Should you get a man who does not stop to listen to you, but wishes to keep talking, there are chances that even in marriage he will not be giving you chance to be heard. Good communication drives literally everything in relationships e.g. romance and sex, financial issues, resolving relationship issues, nurturing relationships etc
- TWO: RESPONSIBLE IN HIS LIFE
Lack of care for the consequences of personal actions and not being legally able to assume responsibility for personal actions is also a major turn off to many passionate ladies. Caring for consequences of actions prevents someone from engaging in destructive habits like drug abuse, chronic alcoholism, dishonesty in dealings of life like work ethics, loose morals like womanizing (hence risking STDs), bad and corrupting associations, etc a passionate man will be responsible enough in his life since he respects himself more than an irresponsible man. A responsible man is more likely to be a loving passionate husband than a caress man.
A responsible man also takes care of his own body and health, thus he is also attractive to people. He is smart, clean, organized etc. When you see such traits in a single man, chances are he can make a great passionate husband.
- THREE: HE IS A VISIONARY MAN
The inability to anticipate future events and developments is a major turn off to any single serious lady who is weighing the prospects of having a man as a husband. Lack of vision portrays someone who will not ensure stability and security of a family in the near and far future. As much as love is the most important thing in any relationship, the truth is love cannot be eaten; you cannot sleep on love, love cannot ensure that your future children goes up to university level, etc. This is a matter of being realistic and a potential passionate husband shows that he has vision in life.
A man with a vision in life also has a focus in life too and will exhibit concentrated effort and attention on particular things in life e.g. career, social stability, spiritual insight and godliness, life aspirations etc. Such a man is attractive to any serious lady who wishes to get a well rounded life partner.
- FOUR: PORTRAYS MATURITY OF CHARACTER
Maturity of age is not complete without the maturity of character. A mature man is able to handle this life with a lot of ease and that includes how he handles himself, his wife and his family in relation to the whole society. If a man is not able to handle himself, how does he expect a lady to trust him into being able to handle her in particular and life in general? Maturity defines how responsible a man can be in life.
Immaturity is unforgivable to many serious ladies. A mature man shows maturity in emotional, mental and physical aspects of his life. Charisma is also associated with maturity of character.
- FIVE: HE DEMONSTRATES HE HAS LOVE AND RESPECT
Ability to love and respect other people defines someone of desirable character, and many ladies are attracted to men who are able to show love, respect and appreciation to her in particular and other people in general. A lady will perceive a man’s ability to love his family by the amount of love he extends to other people. A man who is caring will be able to understand a lady’s feelings and compliment her towards making her a wonderful lady in the society.
A passionate man will show his ability to love and respect other people and that includes a lady he is with, his family, her family and friends, etc Passionate love is all about true and strong love towards the entire humanity and a man who is able to love without reservations even animals, that is a potential passionate husband.
- SIX: HE IS SUPPORTIVE
Any man who offers you moral and emotional support is a supportive man. Being supportive indicates the man is able to stand with you in good and bad times. Does the man encourage you, help you define or redefine your life’s focus, does he offer you proper guidance and support whenever necessary, and does he go an extra mile to ensure that you are happy? Then that is a potential passionate husband.
A man who ensures by all means that you are comfortable in his company, and is also able to resolve any relationship crisis he has with you when you are dating also sends the signals that he is a potential passionate mate. If you get such a man as a lady, hold on to him.
- SEVEN: HE IS CONFIDENT AND SECURE
A confident and secure man is really passionate to ladies, not to be confused with arrogance. A man need not be like James Bond to make you feel secure and protected, all he needs is confidence. Confidence is all about having a positive attitude towards life and believing in one’s abilities.
A man who portrays confidence in what he is, who he is, and in every situation is more likely to be passionate than a man who does not. Confident men will easily try out something new in general life, in romance and sex, in careers etc.
- EIGHT: HE IS FINANCIALLY OR ECONOMICALLY STABLE
This should not be taken in the wrong light. Financial or economic stability does not necessarily mean that the man has to be driving the latest car model, possessing the flashiest phone, living in the most expensive bungalow etc. It only means that the man is capable of taking care of himself and those near him within his means, at ease without bothering the outer world.
It is also true love alone is not enough for a stable marriage, the finance factor is also important and hence ladies will settle easily for a more financially stable man if he has what it takes to be a husband.
- NINE: HE HAS FAITH IN YOU
A man who has faith in a lady and her abilities comes across as very passionate. Ladies naturally love compliments and appreciation.
A man who appreciates who you are as of now, believes in your abilities, and encourages you into being a better self is more likely to be a passionate husband than one who does not.
A man who also does not talk ill of you in your absence or your presence, belittle you or seeks to make you feel inferior compared to him or to other people is a potential passionate husband. A man who has faith in you is more likely to be open to you, he does not fear talking to you about his past successes and failures, his fears, his worries, his aspirations and goals in life, etc. He takes any and every opportunity to build trust between the two of you.
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