Everybody in an intimate relationship always wish that the sexual union be always memorable, passionate, wonderful, awesome etc. However, many people don’t know what is necessary in order for their sex life to be very fulfilling and passionate.
Sexual pleasure has numerous dimensions whose exploration is limited to the two lovers’ imaginations and willingness to go the extra mile in sex. The greatest sexual organ in the body however is the brain since it is the originator of all impulses for the entire body. In this article we explore 10 things you really need to adhere to in order your sex life be as passionate as it can ever get.
- ONE: COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION
This point can’t be emphasized more. Communication is very important in sex life. Communication is complete if both partners are free with each other to express each others’ desires and have their desires met as communicated. It is also about saying what feels good, what does not feel good, what you wish done to you more and more, etc You can also encourage your partner to speak out his/her sexual fantasies which is also another great way of arousing passion.
Sex communication goes even outside bedroom. When you are in a park, public place, etc that offers just hearing privacy, discuss sex, talk what drives you wild in bed, appreciate each other and feel free to talk just about anything sexual, this is a sure way of building passionate tension which will explode in the bedroom later.
Also learn to appreciate each other, compliment each others’ physique, sexual prowess, etc and this encourage each other to be even better in sex.
- TWO: HEALTHY LIFESTYLE
Health is vital for real passionate sex. First, make sure both of you are free from any STI that would hinder you from enjoying sex freely. There is a great degree of trust when two people get intimate knowing that no one is at a risk of acquiring some infection from each other. Before moving in with a new lover, get tested for STIs and HIV just to be sure, otherwise, use barrier protection.
The other element of health is being as healthy as you can be adhering to healthy standards of life. Adhere to nutritional foods that enhance physical energy and immunity, sex burns calories hence you must be very healthy in order to experience ultimate sexual pleasure. Read Feeding for sex.
Also do moderate exercises to build endurance for your body, exercise covers both your entire body and special exercises that target human sexuality e.g. Jelqing for the penis, Kegels for both penis and vagina etc. On more about healthy lifestyle open link NEW START.
- THREE: SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY
Everybody is made differently, some people are more energetic than others, others are taller than others etc and thus also in sex some have more sexual energy or desire, others have bigger/smaller sexual organs etc.
With sexual compatibility it might be necessary that your desires, energies, fantasies match or compliment each other otherwise, there will be a problem in bedroom. If one partner has fewer libidos, the other partner may feel sexually neglected. With compatibility you can choose to compromise and persevere, or one partner to seek to enhance his/her sexual energy, desire, libido etc.
With some, simple physical adjustments and general lifestyle adjustment is all they need in order to match the other partner’s energy. But with others, some more extreme measures like penis and vagina exercises meant to enhance the organs’ energy, endurance, size, elasticity, grip etc may be necessary.
- FOUR: PLAY GAMES, MAKE IT FUN
Sex is not a chore or a routine, or some very serious business. Play sexual games with your partner e.g. blindfolding each other then touch whatever part you think you can reach, play some bondage, subduing, and seduction games during foreplay.
You can also play some cards and poker games, where the loser will be your “passionate slave” for the night.
There are many other games you can play "strip" to, as long as there is regular winner and loser to reward and punish respectively. The great part about these games is that you can both ask the other person to do something in a certain way that you may not necessarily have ever done before. It can get rather filthy, and definitely lead to better sex in the end.