Sex talks are part and parcel of passionate sex. Sex talks are what can make or break passion in bedroom. Be anything to the world, but be a freak in the bed. Sexy talks are what drives passion to where it should be and that means the phrases that you make to your love will determine how turned on both of you will be during sex.
There are two major types of sex talks:
Physical: Physical sex talks borders on praising your partner’s body. Depending on your level of comfort with each other, you can praise a man’s penis, chest, muscles, eyes or a woman’s vagina, breasts, buttocks hips etc.
Emotional: Emotional aspects of sex talk are meant to excite someone through the feelings of love, passion, intimacy. These are deep expressions of love that binds two souls together.
In sex, be freaky, be dirty, be outrageous and courageous in what you say and do. Dirty talk is not just for sex alone, it is an everyday communication between two lovers.
The guidelines in talking dirty may roughly be outlined as:
- Be full of praise to your partner. Praise a physical aspect of his body especially the intimate parts e.g. “I love your hard and thick penis and how it fills me down there”, “I love your tight and wet pussy and how it holds my dick”.
- Praise your partner’s way of having sex or talk to him how to do it to you when you are actively at it e.g. faster, harder, fuck me very hard until you make me cum, take it all in you etc
- Reaffirm him/her that you really belong to her/him during that passionate moment e.g. take me all of me, devour me down there I am whole yours, its all yours honey, smash it etc
- Practice the dirty talks alone before using them so that you will be comfortable with them when with a partner. The last thing you wish to do during sex is to say something weirdly, or forget the phrase midway.
- Get into the habit of talking dirty to your partner even outside the bedroom even in public place. A sexual phrase said where you know sex is almost impossible is very arousing. E.g. Try saying this, “I want you inside me right away”, in a park to your guy, later on, you will be happy you said it.